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arbella: england's lost queen by sarah gristwood
 
 

in arbella: england’s lost queen, sarah gristwood quite ably caught the essence of arbella stuart’s sad, train wreck of a life which reflected her "too royal of a lineage" and the english monarchy’s paranoia of a rival claiming the throne.


this worry was reflected years earlier by the beheading of the duke of buckingham, anne and mary boleyn’s uncle, for offending henry viii(elizabeth’s father) with "too royal blood in his veins."


throughout her life, she was considered a threat; first by her cousin elizabeth i and then by mary queen of scot’s son, james i. living her life under pseudo house arrest, she was prevented from marrying until well into her 30's for fear of producing a male heir who could claim the throne of england. since elizabeth was childless, the line of succession issue reached a fever pitch.


in an almost parallel universe, arbella was kept isolated as was mary queen of scots (the mother of james and cousin to elizabeth). With mary queen of scots a prisoner under the roof of her grandmother,
bess of hardwick and her 4th husband, arbella spent many hours with the displaced scottish queen tending their tapestry. after mary’s death, arbella continued her lonely existence occasionally being invited to court only to be sent away again.


finally, when she was in her 30's, arbella took it upon herself to marry a seymour who was also of royal bloodlines not to mention 10 years her junior. by marrying without the monarchs’ consent, both were considered traitors and she was sent to the country while seymour was imprisoned in the tower of london. a botched escape ended with her capture and his reaching freedom on the mainland.


it was never clear if she went truly mad as her rambling writings would point to but surely the years of confinement, boredom and an unfulfilled life had to have taken its toll. in the end, she died from starvation in the tower of london, all the while hanging onto the simple hope that she and her husband would reunite and finally be allowed to live a normal life.


how sad that such potential would be wasted and even more tragic that most people do not know of her existence. hopefully, this excellent book will change that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


notting hell by rachel johnson
 
 
Notting Hell is a satirical and acerbic commentary on the super wealthy "haves and the have yachts" in a Notting Hill neighborhood surrounding a communal garden. Rachel Johnson slices and dices through the families living on Lonsdale Gardens where selling a rare-to-the-market mid Victorian house is considered the ultimate and most unforgivable faux pas.

Bravo for Rachel Johnson casting aside society's obsession with being "politically correct" and the convenient use of this oxymoron to smoke screen the world's hypocrisy, bad behavior and conspicuous consumption to the max.

"Last month, a woman exited the store after a light, gluten-free lunch and found a traffic warden in the process of writing her a ticket and affixing it to the windscreen of her Mercedes jeep. She picked up a brick off a skip and hit him over the head with it, knocking him out. She ripped off the ticket, laid it on his prone body, then she hopped into her car, reversed into the car behind, and drove off at speed, almost killing Ruby Wax on the pedestrian crossing. Presumably, the woman felt that braining a hard working Ghanaian immigrant after spending his entire annual salary on a morning's groceries was a very appropriate climax to her ethical retail experience."

Reality check, Notting Hell exists all over the world; every city/town has their own mutated form of the NHM (Notting Hill Mummy) and their key developmental milestones. Here is a partial list and my observations in our parallel universe:

1. Notting Hill: Invited to join private group/club/class. Where we live: Yes
2. Notting Hill: Have at least one gifted child. Where we live: Yes, everyone has a gifted child bumper sticker on their auto. Apparently, children no longer get anything less than an A.
3. Notting Hill: Have at least one special needs child. Where we live: If the child isn't gifted then they are some form of the alphabet, ADD, AHDD, dyslexic, etc, and proudly medicated..
4. Notting Hill:Weigh less and/or look younger than own
daughter. Where we live: Yes, Yes. The mothers are in competition with daughters. Lest we not forget their wearing of inappropriate clothing (this most often occurs if overweight) and the one "must have"...ridiculously oversized breast augmentation surgery. Also noted, the women appear to have more Testosterone than the men. They are more angry and aggressive(especially driving)and the men are sensitive and cry at everything.

To all detractors, you need to get out more often because all of this is not uncommon, it just occurs in different groups and geographic locations. I give Ms. Johnson credit for saying it like it is. Don't take is so seriously; get a sense of humor. It is meant to be amusing and light.

"I enter into the fruit and vegetable produce side of the store which wafts conceit in the same way supermarkets pipe the smell of fresh baked-bread at their customers."

Read the book, have some laughs, enjoy the surprise ending and take it as intended, a sarcastic look at life and flawed human nature.

the other boleyn girl by philippa gregory
 
 

Reading this book and then watching the ensuing motion picture, I am struck by the timelessness of these selfish, self-absorbed personalities and their politics, taking advantage of others, the trickery and jockeying for favored positions. And yet, the human persona still hasn’t evolved past these traits of the 16th century royal Tudor court...betrayal, intrigues and romantic drama. Their courtiers have become our politicians, lobbyists and other assorted "rear end" kissers who would further their careers at everyone’s expense.

Aristocrat Mary Boleyn became the pawn in her family’s quest to be the royal favorites and, consequently, the perks and higher positions awarded by the king became the overwhelming goal. Titles, wealth, land, castles were routinely handed out but it was the power that was coveted.

Perhaps one could argue that Henry’s upbringing and education were of a second son and not the heir apparent and future king. Had Arthur (the first son and heir of Henry VII) lived, Henry VIII’s immature, paranoid and hypochondriac nature would not have had such a historical impact. Henry had the usual royal preoccupation with producing viable heirs and the constant worry of being usurped by one with too royal blood in their veins. The Duke of Buckingham, Mary Boleyn’s uncle, was a good example of offending the king because of his royal bloodline. Depending on the king’s interpretation, having royal blood in your veins was considered "offensive" and punishable by death!

"There was a trail of extravagance, dishonesty and waste that followed the king around the country like slime behind a snail." "Henry VIII was first and foremost a spoiled child. When he was given a wonderful present, he loved the giver. He would love the giver right up to the moment that the present bored him, it broke or it failed to be what he wanted."

Mary Boleyn had a conscience, knowing right from wrong, but she also understood her duty to the family and that she had no voice in her destiny at that time in history. Her carefully orchestrated fate, by the hands of her uncle and parents, was to leave her husband, William Carey (who dies of the sweating sickness, become the royal mistress and bear two children by the king. In the family believing her a bit of a simpleton, she eventually is the one to survive, live a long, happy life and avoid the feel of the axe on her neck as is the fate of her sister Anne, her brother George and other unlucky individuals.

She recognized the foolish nature of Henry and the superior and innate royal nature of the Queen, Catherine of Aragon. "To love this man who was more foolish, more selfish and less of a prince than she was a princess."

Mary’s always competitive and ambitious sister, Anne, set her sites on Henry VIII as the prize. Anne utilizes her courtier skills acquired in the royal French household to pursue the king and become queen herself. She tells Mary, "I was born to be your rival and you mine. We’re sisters, aren’t we?" "Anne is ice and ambition and she would see you on the gallows before surrendering her ambition." There comes into play that age old dance between sisters where there is really room for only one girl. In this case, only one Boleyn girl and you get the feeling that the fight could be to the death.

It is interesting to note that when the Queen, Catherine of Aragon, is cast aside to make way for Henry to marry Anne Boleyn, the grand orchestrator of all this, Anne’s (and Mary’s) uncle (the Duke of Suffolk) no longer finds her ambition a virtue. As Mary succinctly states upon Anne’s coronation, "When Anne was enthroned, the Duke of Suffolk looked as if he was chewing on lemons, his smile was so bitter. My uncle was torn between joy at the wealth and prestige for his niece (and the family) and his increasing hatred of her arrogance."

Mary Boleyn never desired to participate in the court trappings and royal intrigues that involved and so intrigued her family. Because of this, she was always thought of as something of a dullard, a rather base simpleton harboring no ambition for the family. In the end, Mary Boleyn keeps her head and leaves court to lead an uncomplicated but fulfilling life in the country with a new husband and children. Mary wins!

I have read most of Philippa Gregory works and she always captures the historical essence while presenting it in a thoroughly entertaining genre. The making of "The Other Boleyn Girl" movie brought to light the little known life of Mary Boleyn who, historically, has been overshadowed by her sister, Anne. It also brought history, in an entertaining format, to many who would not normally be exposed to, or care, about the Tudor period. Kudos!

 

 

 

 

 

 



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